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Is this guy crazy?
Crazy Relationship Trouble...
I met this guy, and we practically hated each other's guts since we met. He was always teasing and I was always very uncomfortable with his comments.
A month ago we were at a party together. We got really drunk and we kissed. After that things got more weird, and I sat down and ask him if he had a problem with me and kind of asked for a truce between us.
We started hanging out. He was coming over everyday, calling me 3 times a day, sending sms, and all this.
So, I thought he needed a little push and I invited him for dinner (where he asked a lot of things about me and my ex boyfriend - we just broke up after 3 years).
Anyway, when he was about to leave I tried to kiss him, but he said he didn't want to!
What is with the mixed signals then?
Dear Red Light/Green Light,
You know, they do say "don't drive drunk" - smooching under the influence is probably almost as dangerous.
There are two sides to every street. I have no idea what this guy was doing on his side, but, as with any traffic signal, they do change.
Sorry about all the "symbolic speak", but I'm on a roll and can't stop now!
It seems to me, when you two first met, the light was flashing red - which, by the way, you drove right on through.
For a while there, you had a flashing green light, I suppose. But as I reference my traffic safety literature, a flashing green light does not necessarily give you an "all clear" to proceed!
You seem to have come to a road that finally had a red light. He put the brakes on it.
Is this mixed signals? I don't think you can assume that with any certainty. My guess is that it's a road often traveled. Not a game - just a journey.
Let it be a lesson to you. Obey the speed limits, always come to a complete stop, look both ways... and proceed with caution.