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Is this guy crazy?




Crazy Relationship Trouble...

Crazy Relationship Trouble...

I met this guy, and we practically hated each other's guts since we met. He was always teasing and I was always very uncomfortable with his comments.

A month ago we were at a party together. We got really drunk and we kissed. After that things got more weird, and I sat down and ask him if he had a problem with me and kind of asked for a truce between us.

We started hanging out. He was coming over everyday, calling me 3 times a day, sending sms, and all this.

So, I thought he needed a little push and I invited him for dinner (where he asked a lot of things about me and my ex boyfriend - we just broke up after 3 years).

Anyway, when he was about to leave I tried to kiss him, but he said he didn't want to!

What is with the mixed signals then?

Dear Red Light/Green Light,

You know, they do say "don't drive drunk" - smooching under the influence is probably almost as dangerous.

There are two sides to every street. I have no idea what this guy was doing on his side, but, as with any traffic signal, they do change.

Sorry about all the "symbolic speak", but I'm on a roll and can't stop now!

It seems to me, when you two first met, the light was flashing red - which, by the way, you drove right on through.

For a while there, you had a flashing green light, I suppose. But as I reference my traffic safety literature, a flashing green light does not necessarily give you an "all clear" to proceed!

You seem to have come to a road that finally had a red light. He put the brakes on it.

Is this mixed signals? I don't think you can assume that with any certainty. My guess is that it's a road often traveled. Not a game - just a journey.

Let it be a lesson to you. Obey the speed limits, always come to a complete stop, look both ways... and proceed with caution.

Regards,
Dr. Julia



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