Taking in a stray without asking the wife?
by AMK
(Norway)
My 9 month old belgian sheepdog
I have one Belgian Shepherd, one cat and two adopted boys. Only the cat was brought into the family without my wife knowing about it.
Question: A lady is giving away a 9 week old Labrador/Collie because she is allergic to dogs. I asked lots of friends and nobody wants it.
The lady may have it terminated. If I ask my wife for permission she will say NO! Therefore, I wonder if I should just go get the puppy and hope it grows on her??
What do you think?
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